Tipping Khmer Singers (thirsty guys) ??

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  • #6269

    channy
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    Hello all, I had a quick question, when the khmer girls get up there and sing at weddings etc. and guys come up and tip them, is this considered flirting or the guys trying to “flirt” with the singer? What if its an excessively large tip like $20? As dont most just tip them a few bucks? I have been told both no its just tipping and also yes it is flirting. In my opinion, guys tipping large amounts like $20 is probably interested in the girl.

    The reason I am asking is that my wife is a singer, and she tells me tipping is standard, just like tipping a waiter for example. I disagree and find it hard to believe that a guy tipping $20 isnt interested in her. I know that for myself personally I wouldnt tip $20 if I wasnt interested, matter of fact I wouldnt tip at all if I wasnt interested in trying to talk to her, She doesnt do anything bad or give me a reason not to trush her, I just dont like her bullshitting me on the intentions of these men giving her large tips. But who knows maybe I am wrong and old men tipping young hot singers $20 is as standard as tipping a waiter?

    Probably also worth pointing out regarding the waitress analogy, men typically give waitresses large tips when they are interested in them too, so when a man tips a waitress or a singer a very large tip, I would assume hes interested in her.

    whats your thoughts?

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  • #6277

    LaLa
    Participant

    Interested or not, at the end of the day, she’s bringing home the money.

  • #6293

    Mr.Children
    Participant

    Yes, tipping large amount is showing interest…but it’s more than that. A man will throw down more money to get a woman’s attention, and for many men, it’s indirectly saying “You’ll get more money if you suck my d*ck”. I highly doubt that most men want to have a real relationship with her.

    There’s a reason why Beyonce is with Jayz. Now, if you’re not JayZ and bringing in more money than the men who are throwing money at her…then you got some competition. It’s like a woman that hang with men who are more successful than you!

    Never trust women who think it’s okay to make money off men.

     

    • #6295

      LaLa
      Participant

      Hey, maybe the guy is just rich. $20 to him might seem like $1 to other people!

    • #6301

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      Every woman has a price.

  • #6305

    channy
    Participant

    lmao this is too funny, so its pretty much exactly as I expected, to keep it simple, the answer is yes they are trying to talk to her. I dont have a problem with her singing and getting these tips from these guys, she has no interest in them, what I do have a problem with is her lying about the intent of the men tipping when she knows damn well they wanna fuck. I mean cmon now its obvious, in any situation where it is appropriate to tip, generally speaking, if a man tips a large amount of money to a pretty women, it typically is a sign of interest. Do you agree?

     

    Let me ask another question and flip this thing around. Would it be appropriate for me to be tipping the singers $20 in front of my girl friend or would that be considered rude or disrespectful somehow?

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    • #6307

      LaLa
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      Maybe she’s not lying. Her perspective might be a lot different than yours. With me, I always need a second opinion, or even a third, when it comes to certain situations like this. Women can be oblivious sometimes, especially when it is a normality for them when receiving these attentions.

      And to answer your question, yes, it would be rude/disrespectful if you were to tip someone $20 in front of your girlfriend, without her consent. Did that guy do that in front of his wife/gf?

    • #6314

      channy
      Participant

      what i think it is,  is a white lie on her part so “i dont get mad” but in reality, I prefer you and me both just acknowledge the reality and move on, not sit there and play dumb when you know damn well whats up. Pretty much was my whole point.

      Did that man tip her in front of his wife? No, that man tipped my GF in front of me, and according to my gf, “its no big deal”…..so I dont see why it would be a issue for me to tip a pretty singer $20 in front of my GF since “its no big deal” can you please explain?

      I hate that shit when girls try and play dumb, oh no he doesnt want to fuck me, he is just a really nice guy………you know why hes a really nice guy? cause he wants to fuck you, lol.

      I aslo think this is a very fair and true statement:

      in any situation where it is appropriate to tip, generally speaking, if a man tips a large amount of money to a pretty women, it typically is a sign of interest.

      Do you agree?

       

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    • #6377

      LaLa
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      You tipping a woman that’s not your wife is a totally different scenario. You’re placing yourself in the man’s shoes and not hers. IF a woman were to tip you for whatever reason, do you think your woman would be mad? And throw out an accusation that the tipper wants to eff you? Maybe not.

      If I were in your wife’s position, I would totally think he’s either being generous or is interested in me. It wouldn’t cross my mind that he wants to eff me unless he’s expressing sexual remarks. That’s just my opinion.

      I’ve had an experience similar to this before with my bf, but he didn’t accuse me of white lies. Instead, he listened to me, understood that I was honest. He only got angry/protective because of how oblivious I was to the real world and intentions of people. Maybe you could approach it differently to your wife with these thirsty men?

    • #6404

      channy
      Participant

      appreciate your input, the only issue I have is that I cannot speak with my GF about it, because when I do, even if I am calm etc, she immediately gets defensive/angry, and turns it into a argument.

      I would disagree with placing myself in the mans shoes, rather I am placing myself in the shoes of how my GF explains the scenario: “its no big deal, hes not interested, its just part of the culture”

      If I tip a singer in front of her, it should be no different, it should be  “its no big deal, hes not interested, its just part of the culture”…..yet for some reason if I do it the same “rules” dont apply? Sounds like a double standard to me.

      The tipper may not be trying to EFF her as you put it, but its definitely a sign of interest as we have already clarified here, and when men are interested in a woman, its typically because they want to EFF them…..its the end goal.

       

      at the end of the day I just would prefer her to keep it real with me rather than play dumb

       

       

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    • #6550

      LaLa
      Participant

      When you mentioned “interest” not all women will automatically think that it means wanting to eff. I’m assuming from the women’s mind (mine), sex doesn’t always come up. We don’t think about it as often as men do. And when women are interested in someone, it’s more than just the physical/sexual aspect of it. Whereas men, it’s pretty much the opposite.

      She should at least be willing to talk about it than to get defensive/angry. I hope you guys resolved this tho.

    • #6325

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      It’s never a good sign when women mix men and money.

  • #6342

    Polin Hem
    Participant

    LOL. cant win with some men. i guess you’d rather have her stay at home and not work at all then.

    • #6370

      channy
      Participant

      The whole point of this thread was to clarify whether the men tipping her are interested or not, I never said I had a problem with her working, just deny or pretending to be oblivious to the mens advances. I was second guessing myself whether I should consider these men tipping her interested or not, so I came her to get others opinion, and the answer is yes they are.

    • #6386

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      i get what you saying but girls will get hit on in any occupation they do. its like one of the hazards of being born a female. i learned to accept it and deal with it lmao. matter of fact i kinda like the validation from other people. At the end of the day if what you got is real then all them niggas is simps for tipping her 20’s and shit.

    • #6413

      channy
      Participant

      100, i just prefer she would keep it real with me rather than fake the funk, no need to deny it if im not trippin about it. Just wanted to clarify the intent behind tipping as maybe I was making something out of nothing, but everyone has already confirmed, generally what the intent is behind men tipping, that they are interested.

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    • #6412

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      I think you should leave her. Men always get signs..but we ignore it. That’s why the trashiest ho can still find a man. It really doesn’t matter what she do…what matters the most is how you feel. If you don’t feel right, that’s god’s sign for you to move on.

      And even though if she’s just taking the money….she’s putting her in a bad situation. Guys throw money as an indirect way of saying “I’ll give you more if you let me hit it”..and just by taking that money..she’s putting herself in that situation. Eventually, she will meet a man that she can’t ignore because every woman has a price. Like I said….Jayz is with Beyonce for a reason.

    • #6417

      channy
      Participant

      Guys throw money as an indirect way of saying “I’ll give you more if you let me hit it”

      Thats exactly what I came here to clarify, as according to her, when guys give her money for singing, its no big deal, and part of the culture, and they are not interested in her.

      My gut feeling was that it meant they were interested in her, I have now confirmed it.

      Let me ask you, in khmer  culture, would it be considered rude for me to tip a singer in front of my GF? I mean if “its no big deal, it doesnt mean Im interested in her, and its just part of the culture”, I dont see why it would be a problem?

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    • #6426

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      it is part of the culture to tip a performer. this is nothing new. perhaps there are other motivations more sinister behind this tipping phenomenon. However, i caution my friend don’t let these niggas get in your head and fuck up a good thing. but also at the same time keep your on a head on a swivel.

  • #6429

    Mr.Children
    Participant

    Think about it.. a woman that directly takes money from men!

    • #6470

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      stfu already tryna start shit. i could smell that stank ass attitude a mile away

    • #6473

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      No matter how many guys a girl bang, no many how many d*cks a girl suck, no matter how many men a woman have babies with…….there are always men that will marry them.

    • #6476

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      is that why u decided to be gay?

    • #6479

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      The man who marries a ho always think in extremes.

    • #6500

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      did you just call his wife a ho?

    • #6503

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      Obviously, I’m being anti ho while you’re the pro ho here.

    • #6521

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      answer the question u sackless faggot

    • #6524

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      You’re constantly defending hoes and make anti gay statements. I don’t have to say anymore.

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    • #6536

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      so what you butthurt? u a bich

    • #6688

      channy
      Participant

      Exactly so it is part of the culture, now would it be rude for me to tip a singer in front of my gf?

  • #6537

    smokeybandit
    Participant

    She’s singing to earn money not provide escort services.  Tipping is natural.  Take a look at street performers, they perform music on the street and passersby chuck change into their jar, guitar case, etc.  It’s no different when you’re performing live.  However, at professional venues, tipping is not as common place because the performer makes money off entry fees.  I have a booking agent from NYC who’s been trying to get me to perform in Toronto for some time now.  The compensation for performance all depends on the head count at the venue.

    • #6540

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      Like I said, Beyonce is with Jayz for a reason. It’s only a matter of time before she meets a tipper that she can’t resist. Every woman has her price!

    • #6541

      smokeybandit
      Participant

      She’s a musician, she’s wayyyy outta everybody’s league.

    • #6546

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      Like I said, there’s a reason why Beyonce is with Jay Z. It’s not that she’s way out of everybody’s league….but that there are many men who do make more money than her and make more than her partner. You ever watched “The Founder” about the story of McDonald’s? The lady was married or taken, and she met “The Founder”…and she left her man for him.

      Women treat men like jobs…they go for the guy who brings in more money. The only reason why many women are with men who make less is that there just aren’t enough guys who make more. Women have higher rates of STDs than men. You know why? Because most women are sleeping with the top 20% of men.

    • #6551

      LaLa
      Participant

      Like I said, there’s a reason why Beyonce is with Jay Z. It’s not that she’s way out of everybody’s league….but that there are many men who do make more money than her and make more than her partner. You ever watched “The Founder” about the story of McDonald’s? The lady was married or taken, and she met “The Founder”…and she left her man for him.

      Women treat men like jobs…they go for the guy who brings in more money. The only reason why many women are with men who make less is that there just aren’t enough guys who make more. Women have higher rates of STDs than men. You know why? Because most women are sleeping with the top 20% of men.

      You have such a narrow way of thinking when it comes to women. Is that why you’re only interested in men? Even so, I don’t think there will ever be any human species interested in you with that kind of mentality.

    • #6567

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      dont worry about him Lala. hes a fuckin troll. one day imma find out who dis bich really is and im fonna beat that ass

    • #6571

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      I’m reporting you to the police.

       
      Polin Hem

      dont worry about him Lala. hes a fuckin troll. one day imma find out who dis bich really is and im fonna beat that ass

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    • #6570

      Mr.Children
      Participant

      Again, there’s a reason why Bey once is with Jay Z. More women now are educated and making more money than men….so there are less marriages, less children being born, and more divorces. The main reason for divorce is MONEY! Suicide among men are higher now and increase of school shootings by males who simply can’t find women to mate with. And like I said, women have higher rates of STDs than men do because women generally are sleeping with the top 20% of men.

      Women mate and date up. When women rise financially, they don’t stay with their men unless those men make more or keep up. That’s just the truth. Why are you so upset girl? Why are you attacking me personally?

    • #6577

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      REport me you faggot. i cant wait to see the paperwork so i can find out who this bich really is

    • #6717

      Polin Hem
      Participant

      Hahahaha women are petty they gonna remember that if u do

  • #7190

    channy
    Participant

    so the question still remains, in khmer culture, would it be considered rude/disrespectful for me to tip an attractive female khmer singer $20 in front of my GF?

    • #7205

      LaLa
      Participant

      Being an artist, I get tipped all the time. Not because I’m attractive, but they think I’m talented 😬😊😋. I’m totally fine with it if my bf were to tip an awesome artist too.

  • #7359

    Dynasty
    Participant

    The only tip I’ve ever gotten was from a #2 pencil…

    Why is it such a big deal tipping? It’s like a tradition right? Dont you tip singers and out of the countries folks that comes perform I’m the states?

    I thought love was never jealous? Or am I just flashing back to “A walk to remember?”
    Which reminds me she looks so breathtaking singing on that stage with her hair like that.. I think I’m in love…

  • #7435

    Polin Hem
    Participant

    look there’s two types of tipping for you slow ass niggas. their is the thirsty tipping. you know what im talking about. old ass niggas that got money but got fucked in the looks department. Then there is appreciative tipping. Meaning i give tips all the time to fucking waiters (men and women) and i have no desires to fuck them whatsoever. not every waitress that serves me is fuckable. sometimes you just give what you feel comfortable with and there is no standard for that, it’s all relative to the person.

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