2 months ago #3586
What do you think are the problems of men and women?
I think for women, it’s that that they often want want want. They want status, house, kids, etc. I see so many guys not going for most women or not committing because women act like employees always trying to move up the ladder or look for the better job. They treat relationships like jobs and leave when the better opportunity arises.
For men, I think men cheat….no matter how happy they are in their relationships, they still cheat with a cheap and ugly whore. Most happily married men would cheat on their beautiful wives with a fat chick.
2 months ago #3601
For your generalizations and stereotypes, speak for yourself. I wouldn’t want to associate myself with you on any topic.
2 months ago #3611
I see a lot of people like you…there are more people like you than the people I mention. Women in general don’t want to realize that their men cheat. Guys in general don’t want to admit that they are a tool or stepping stone for women. Guys will bring their wive’s families over to America, buy women expensive rings, and go into debt to to impress women…but they never want to admit they are tools.
People always attack the messenger. If I tell women they are getting cheated on..they get mad at me…not the husband..lol. Tell a guy in a luxury car that he’s rich, and he’s happy. Tell him that he bought a car he couldn’t’ afford..and he gets mad.
2 months ago #3615
“I see a lot of people like you…there are more people like you than the people I mention. Women in general don’t want to realize that their men cheat. Guys in general don’t want to admit that they are a tool or stepping stone for women. Guys will bring their wive’s families over to America, buy women expensive rings, and go into debt to to impress women…but they never want to admit they are tools.”
~ Mr. Children
There you go again. You live in a bubble society of marriage for naturalization purposes which I don’t see anything wrong with. You are too tied up in the gossip in your neighborhood that your mind is easily influenced from the first things your hear and make assumptions and point fingers. Have you not thought that there are bigger circles in life that you’re not included in and never will be?
That there are still gentlemen and madams in this world that hold faith until many lifetimes over? That the men still take a knee at his beautiful wife’s arrival or a lady that covers her mouth at the unbelievable sight of her husband that’s been away on business coming home?
No, you will never understand because you see the negative sides of things. You’re just a lonely man too scared to commit yourself to a woman because of your own insecurities but I wish you the best that you won’t cheat on your next one.
2 months ago #3623
Why did marrying for naturalization purposes seem to hit you personally? LOL! I didn’t say there’s anything wrong with it….i’m just saying that most of the time, these guys are tools for these women, but they’re in denial about it. Most of the time, these guys want to believe that women from poor and unstable countries really love them for them…when they’re just tools.
What bigger circles that i’ll never been in? Most happily married guys cheat on their wives! Your’e telling me that you live in a society where men and women are mostly faithful to each other? LOLOL! Oh, I get it…cheaters getting upset at me for calling them out..LOL.
There are many loyal and faithful people out there. All i’m saying is that most men cheat on their wives and women have endless expectations. Many women will rise up with their men as he prosper…but not many women will ride down the hard times with men when they go broke. It’s like most countries in the world are poor and sh*tholes…and you say i’m a negative guy…LOL. A poor person in America is richer than most people in the world…not my opinion.
I never said I cheat or scared of commitment. I’m very pro marriage and commitment, but I believe that you have to see things as they are in order to find the best partner for yourselves. You can’t just think that men are faithful, women don’t care about money, and go to Cambodia and get a wife..lol. That’s just a false positive way of thinking.
Seems like i hit a note with some of you and you take it personally and go after me personally. I’m just observing guys.
2 months ago #3607
So how you gonna solve this problem?
2 months ago #3610
I can’t solved the problems, but I can learn to avoid such people. Nothing I can do about women that have endless and unrealistic expectations. Nothing I can do if a man will cheat on his faithful wife with a whore.
2 months ago #3614
Is that why you’re not in a relationship? Because you know you’ll cheat? 😆
2 months ago #3622
Again, this has nothing to do with me. I’m just observing and telling what mostly happen. Why is it when somebody presents something, people go after the messenger? Why is it when a guy cheats on a girl, the girl gets angry at me for telling her that he’s cheating on her?? LOL! It’s almost like the no snitching rule where people get angry at the person who reports a crime.
I even remember one time, when I told these kids who were going to a for profit school that they were getting scammed. They got upset with me and walked away. What happened? The school got shut down by the government! Now they’re in debt, working the same sh*tty jobs, while I make more money.
2 months ago #3629
It has nothing to do with you, but you’re making a generalization of two groups of people, which one includes you..unless you don’t consider yourself as neither? 🤨
2 months ago #3630
I heard from somewhere that there are 72 genders. @Mr.Children must belong to one of the other 70 genders. LOL
2 months ago #3644
Is a gender reveal happening in the near future, MC? 🙂
2 months ago #3635
I’m talking about most people, not specific persons. My opinion, this bothers you because maybe I’m talking about you? It’s like when I say most women sleep around with many men..it’s the women that sleep around with many men that get upset at me…but the virgins blush.
2 months ago #3638
“Most” okay, gotcha 😉
I feel bad that you’re surrounded by people like that. You have to remove yourself, mister.children.
2 months ago #3642
I don’t purposely surround myself with people like that…that’s just life. The prostitution business is larger and more profitable than most popular sports combined. Who paying for all these hoes?? LOL! Why do you think we constantly have presidents and other politicans who keep having sex scandals? I’m sorry ladies…sorry to be the bearer of bad news…within your marriage, men are sleeping with other women. I know women like it when men say they travel to this place and that place…but it’s all sex tourism.
Don’t get upset at the messenger. I know that most women can’t do nothing about it. My only point is to say it like it is, so that the few women out there will take what I say and actually think about it before they proceed further with guys…so that they can get with men who don’t cheat on them.
2 months ago #3627
vicious cycle of underplanned parenthood & preoccupation?
i’d not risk condemn any (more) of our souls to this crowded material penal colony powered by war, waste, consumption & lust..
2 months ago #3636
This is the thing…most people in poverty or broke could avoid being poor or significantly make their lives easier if they didn’t have kids. If people want to have kids, how about waiting until you can afford to have one? Get an education and be financially stable first?
People rather blame racism, capitalism, and society than to blame themselves for having kids with no jobs and no education higher than high school. Even a lot of women blame men and men get so much sh*t…but much of the time, these women don’t even know who the fathers are because they slept with so many guys. So instead of saying it like it is, they tell their kids that the father is a deadbeat…when these women have no clue who the father is.
2 months ago #3637
And you know what’s crazy???? The world’s population will be much larger in a few decades, yet first world country’s are seeing a decrease in population or the better off people are decreasing in population. America’s population may be rising…but educated people have less kids, while the dumb and poor have more kids. A huge portion of the world would be African in the future….it’s the poorest people on earth having more kids! At the rate we are going, we won’t be able to feed all of the people in the world..we can’t do that today. Life will be worst for poor people in the future!
2 months ago #3647
absolutely.. can’t help but notice how short marriages nowadays last, each! and whats up with the modern cultural epidemic of 60yo kh-am grown men using their social security benefits etc to maintain a whole harem of fresh human cattle breeding stock back in sok kh these days?!
‘Thou shalt not commit adultery’ Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:27, Romans 13:9, etc
‘Lust and greed ruin the mind as weeds ruin fields’ Buddha’s Dhammapada 22
ultimately, it really does boil down to each of us – individually – whether we chose in our life actions – as your title itself points out – to perpetuate the problem.. or be the resolution…
if for nothing else, eternal karma’s sake.
2 months ago #3651
Buddhism is a very hard religion to follow. Basically, it teaches to not blame anybody because it’s our karma that create what we have today. We all earned what we have. Most people can’t swallow that. I won’t go to deep on that, but we got too many idiots who keep pumping put babies…..and then complain about society.
For Khmer Americans, I think it’s going to get worst. Before, we hid behind the excuses of war. Now Khmer Americans raised in America…most of them have kids before 25 with no higher education or financially stability. The first generation got a pass, but the 2nd generation…they’re just like any other broke Americans. America won’t be as nice because more Americans in debt, more competition for jobs, automation, companies shutting down left, and right, etc. It’s not like back in the 80s where you could go on welfare or work a factory jobs.
It’s going to be tough..and I’m so sorry to see many of my people focused on getting brand new cars than actually preparing for the future. It’s crazy that the people most susceptible to the economic woes this country will face are the ones who are most careless.
1 month, 4 weeks ago #3690
hit the head on the nail, mr Kids! apparently khmer theravadaism in local community puts simply attending to wats and bikkus on a pedestal, implying one can be a gangster/ette most all their life blaming KaRma for their ordeals, as long as one day in the end they take a time-out to dress up as a monk and say their sama sama puthos.
observe 1st gen kh-ams worked hard to deal with drama of their gangster/ette kids on drugs in grade school while saving up for their college and bigger house, only to file bankrupty and sell home or lose it primarily cuz least one bailed on cosigned student loan.
notice 2nd gen kh-ams tend to drop outta college, perpetually burried in paying off brand new car loans, returning to the nest to raise their (and/or s.o.’s) kids by 25 under their parents roof, often no longer able to afford even rent on their own. content enuf though with the guaranteed fun of nightly hookups with hoes as long as bring ‘ice’ to party. so much for quality vs quantity!
today’s 3rd gen are now quite autistic yet spoiled rotten & toxic with all the pricey disposable tech, gmo fast food, and wasteful pop culture; financing not just the newer bmw but just about everything in sight while hopelessly balancing odd jobs (or collecting gov/wic checks) & nightly clubbing/dining for their mixed litter of kmao/sdek kids by like 15 =/
alas, if only they’d realize the mass ghetto appeal succumbed to, they’d return to living like their Ankgorian hindu & buddhist ancestors did in quite a contrasting state of resourcefulness & grace. afterall, many indian- and chinese- american youth somehow still manage to, so far!
all in all, man woman & many a child, it’s nevertheless each’s choice: be the perpetual problem or the solution; reap what ya sow and deal with it accordingly.
“Even when he is doing evil, the fool does not realize it. The idiot is punished by his own deeds, like one is scorched by fire” (Buddha – Dhammapada 136)
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