Successful women are less attractive?

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  • #4717

    Mr.Children
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    Depending on where you look, I think that in general, men find successful women less attractive. The reason is that most guys are intimidated by more successful women. Most guys want to be the smarter and more successful..as to them, that’s what makes them men. For me, I’m not intimidated by successful women..but more like I think successful women are demanding. They want this and that….and that’s why they are successful. And I think some research also shows that women are less attracted to men that are less successful than they are. In other words, most women date/marry up or prefer to do so. The only reason why we may see some successful women with less successful men is because successful women outnumber more successful men..so they have to date down.

    Women usually date/marry up. When women are with more successful men, it’s okay…but when they start moving up and they become more successful…they start opening their eyes to even more successful men.

    Look at it this way…a couple who works in low wage job…girl is cashier and guy is shift manager of fast food…it’s okay…she think he’s the greatest guy in the world. When she becomes store manager…the shift manager now is a sh*t manager. She’s interested in the regional manager now. A woman that has the potential to make hundreds of thousand of dollars more than her husband will never stick with her husband or help bring him up. Many men will bring their women out of poverty and up the economic ladder…but women will rarely do so.

  • #4718

    smokeybandit
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    one thing i noticed is that my entry level IT job makes more than a shift manager at a fast food joint. lol

    • #4729

      Mr.Children
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      That’s why I strongly encourage people get into tech. Tech is where the opportunities are and you start at the bottom and can make more than somebody that’s been working 20 years elsewhere. Countries and people who embrace technology will see leaps in quality of life.

  • #4719

    Pleu
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    most asian dudes i chat bout this with, openly say they would cheat as long as the new person is thinner, lighter, and/or younger than his main gf/wife.

    i notice k chicks  – after many trampstamps and failed relationships – finally do get successful although less attractive with age, and not look back, ending up marrying  much older kmao, sdek, or barang guys who came along and accepted her past relationships’ kids.

    perhaps thats why u usually see k dudes tend to end up not so successful? stuck with sleazy but ‘hot’ younger hoodrats as gfs and the debts and addictions indefinitely, cuz intimidated, they won’t bother trying to impress successful, selective non-hoodrat females who ‘know better’?

    successful chicks expect him to improve the moment he starts talking to her, which sends him running back in the direction of new hoodrat hoes instead, who will stay with him just for whatever street drug he does.

    while theres lots of cougars nowadays who will have a fling, cause he’s a bad boy and smooth talker, they won’t share success unless he too is already somewhat successful and faithful – which seems seldom the case cuz of KR and ghetto/ganglife upbringing excuses for why he’s rather messed up.

    sorry to generalize =/

     

    • #4730

      Mr.Children
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      Nearly all men cheat…which is an unfortunate reality. The day men stop cheating is the day women give up chocolate…

      The thing with other races is that they are more open, accepting, and less judgmental. A Khmer girl with 3 kids….most Asian guys would never deal with that, but non-Asian men will embrace her and her kids. For example, I know this white guy who is paying for out of college for his Khmer step kids.

      Khmer males and females are very similar…think so much a like. Khmer guys don’t improve because Khmer girls don’t care and don’t want to improve themselves. A guy studying doesn’t fit most Khmer women’s lives. They like going to the casino, clubbing, getting pregnant, shopping, car shopping, gossip, go on vacations, and watching drama. If you just fulfill what I just listed, then you get most Khmer girls.

  • #4742

    smokeybandit
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    Are you f* kidding me? The ladies at the top of my company are all sexy as well. However, they’re probably out of 99% of the guys who work at the company’s league.

    You don’t get to the top of your company or field by accident. It takes a lot of work, dedication, charm and charisma. Don’t even try to belittle successful women because likely they’re out of your league.

    • #4756

      Mr.Children
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      I didn’t say physical attraction, but just attraction in general. What I said is that guys are less attracted to a woman because she’s more successful. A lot of guys are like that…they don’t want to have relationships with women that make more and are more successful. I get where they are coming from and it’s human nature. Though I’m not intimated, I’m less attracted to more successful women because they usually want more and more and more.

      I didn’t belittle women because they are successful. I’m talking about men not being attracted to women who are more successful.

      Now, you say people don’t get to the top by accident…..how do you know? Most people get jobs through connections…they don’t get their jobs by competing fairly with everybody. How do you know that women didn’t sleep their way up? Nowadays, there are a lot of sexual harassment cases coming out that expose women having sex with men to get jobs and move up. I didn’t mention this, but since you brought it up.

  • #4748

    LaLa
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    That’s your opinion, but your reasoning and logic behind it seems to be all over the place…scattered.

    To be intimidated by someone who is successful shouldn’t be a factor that makes them less attractive, if anything, it’s the opposite.

    With me, I like to surround myself with all sorts of people. The people that makes me feel intimidated are the ones that I like to learn and grow from. I would question myself what can I do to make myself to where they’re at? And then I would work on it.

    • #4757

      Mr.Children
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      The reality is that many men find women less attractive simply because women are more successful. I didn’t say women are less attractive..i’m saying the men find them less attractive. A lot of men get upset when they hear their wives get promoted and make more money. They get butthurt and go after young girl who makes a lot less to feel better about themselves.

      Unfortunately, a lot of people don’t seek to learn from those that intimidate them, but instead become jealous.

    • #4766

      LaLa
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      Unfortunately, I know what you’re trying to say. I wouldn’t say many men find women less attractive because women are more successful. In general, there will always be a group of people that will not be happy in other’s success and this could be sub categorized with men to women.

      For example, I know of a couple who does this. The wife is a college graduate with many work experiences, and the husband isn’t. He would rather have her stay at home and watch the kids KNOWING that she would make more money if she were to work. The fact that she’s able to make more money than him, deflates his ego.

      TBH, being with someone should be teamwork. When one succeed, they all succeed, but not all see this. They let their pride and ego get in the way of success.

      • This reply was modified 2 months, 3 weeks ago by  LaLa.
    • #4789

      Mr.Children
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      Yes, it hurt a lot of guy’s ego when they see their partner do better. They should be happy, but they become less attracted to their partners…unfortunately, much of it is human nature. On the other hand, women are also attracted to more successful men. This is why half of affairs start at the workplace. A woman got a husband who is inferior at home and this guy at work with a lot of ambition…women end up cheating. A woman that will make 1 million more in her lifetime than her partner will not stick with her man..sorry…she’s going to get with another man who makes the same, if not more.

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