People Have Sex Because They Lack Self-Worth

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  • #3209

    smokeybandit
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    Beiber recently called the shots in an interview, where he revealed he waited until marriage to have sex.

    Justin Bieber Didn’t Have Sex With Hailey Until Marriage for ‘Self-Worth’

  • #3217

    Mr.Children
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    I get what he means. When people truly care about each other and want to make it work…they leave sex out of the picture because sex confuses thing. I see that especially with women. They whore around…but when they meet a guy they can marry…they hold out and become harder to get. If you truly care about a woman..the future mother of your child…you want to create a great story to tell your kids. Banging her on the first date or meeting up for sex through an app is not the story.

    Good for him!

  • #3239

    Pleu
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    caveat emptor? With Hailey! =/

  • #3245

    Dynasty
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    Only sex I know is the opposite.

  • #3259

    Anonymous

    if Bieber says it’s cool then it’s cool I guess. lol

    • #3287

      Mr.Children
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      If he said it, then I say that’s one of the smartest thing I heard in a long time. Nowadays, the average dude marries a woman that bang him on the first night. Why would you marry somebody that would do something that a hooker does? If it takes your wife to bang you on the first date..then that’s how long it take for her to bang all her male friends she hand plenty of lunches and dinners with.

    • #3342

      Anonymous

      Ninja you overthink too much..keep it simple we only live once make the best of it. But that doesn’t mean go smashing every breezy you have a chance, gotta be smart and selective at the same time..

  • #3288

    Pleu
    Participant

    doin it for the dub n dough makes it way more ‘worth’ while.

  • #3316

    YellowPeril
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    If Bieber cared about self-worth he wouldn’t act like a douche canoe in public or towards other people. It’s really rich coming from a person who objectifies bodies and is a born-again virgin. Yeah, hate to burst any Belieber’s bubble, that bloke isn’t a virgin. The only thing he didn’t do was have sex with his current partner prior to their marriage. It’s laughable.

    • #3323

      Mr.Children
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      Beiber acts no different than typical young kids and he didn’t really do anything horrible. Maybe one or 2..I don’t know, but for the most part, he’s like any other kid. People give him a hard time because he’s good looking, talented, so many females love him, and he’s rich. On the other hand, so many rappers actually commit crimes, rap about committing crimes, belittle women, etc, and people praise them. We’re okay with most rappers because most of them don’t have the best features. We can always look down on them and say women only love them for money Beiber on the other hand, when he throw eggs at his neighbor’s house….it makes the news and we make a big deal out of it. I mean, I never seen so many guys keep saying Beiber is gay. People love calling naturally good looking guys gay.

      • This reply was modified 3 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mr.Children.
    • #3327

      YellowPeril
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      No one compared him to anyone else. He’s in the public eye and there are tons of individuals his age who aren’t self-obsessed. Therefore, his words and actions will be scrutinized when he’s trying to pass himself off like he’s a gud boi these days. No one said he committed crimes, it’s about he holds himself. You used extreme examples in an attempt to make “points”. Good try.

      Referring back to this thread’s title and topic, if Bieber wants to use sex to measure or validate his self-worth thats on him. However, using that same standard to judge others’ self-worth is both passé and shortsighted. Individuals are more than just a status, number, and condition. Self-worth should be up to the individuals themselves. Yes, I am ragging on Bieber, I can’t stand his mug and I’ll do it again. If someone goes out and has sex with other people that’s their prerogative. If you don’t use protection, hell yes, I’m going to judge you because that’s putting others in harm’s way.  There are people who have sex with tons of people to measure their self-worth and trap themselves in this never-ending battle with their own ego, but again, that same standard should not be applied to someone else. The individual chose that for themselves because not everyone holds the same views or beliefs.

      Anyways, the point is, what people do is their business, but using one standard and applying it to every relationship or individual’s self-worth is wrong. One size does not fit all. A relationship is more than sex. Some people who have tons of partners turn out to be miserable and some people who married as virgins can also end up in miserable relationships. In other cases, some virgins who marry have healthy and happy relationships and the same thing can be said of those who were sexually experimented in their past as well. It can go either way. It ultimately boils down to compatibility and how one conducts themselves in their own relationships.

    • #3352

      Mr.Children
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      Most of the scrutiny he gets are just from haters who hate the guy because he’s naturally good looking, talented, rich, and girls love him. Society don’t rag on other celebs for doing the same thing and worst…because most celebs are missing some things. A celeb may be a great singer, but not good looking. Maybe not great hair, but buff. Funny, and fat. We love it when people have cons to go with their pros. Beiber has more pros than most people..and a shtty attitude that other celebs have. We as a society hate that! You can be a rich nerd, but ugly…but if you a rich good looking nerd..people hate that sht!

      What Beiber says bother people because the average woman is a dcksucker and most guys marry sluts. The average guy took longer to bang his own wife than some guy at the bar. The average woman marries a guy that tried to get with so many young girls or swipe so many girls on tinder before he got to her. So when they see 2 people who wait for each other, it bothers them. I know that my parents are old and walk down the street and hold hands. And that fckinb others people!

      Yes, I see what you mean..people shouldn’t judge…but at the same time, people can voice their opinions. For example, Christians believe non-believers go to hell…that’s is their beliefe and right. For myself, I believe in Buddhism and if you ugly and poor, you have bad karma. It’s not looking down…just what I believe. Most men are cheating on their wives .. not looking down.

  • #3325

    Savuthy
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    This blog is a clickbait.  It’s not whether people have sex because they lack self worth but rather, celebrity A choosing to not have sex with celebrity B until marriage.  We’re not talking about personal decisions that we would have the opportunity to make or not but to criticize what a person of a higher status would make.

    Let Justin and Hailey Bieber be. It’s their personal romance and they’re lasting so they’re meant for each other. Neither of them lacked self worth but when romance is in the air, they will love and continue to love each other. They will create children and continue with life’s passion.

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